A Wicked tradition

 A Wicked tradition

 

When a woman dies, it is believed and agreed that it is her time to die; the husband will not be accused of having a hand in the death of the woman, the man will not face any problem, he will be comforted, cared for, loved, and greatly helped.

 

When a man dies, especially if he is less than 55 years of age before his death, the wife is in for a big trouble, she will be accused of killing the husband, while she will be subjected to the custom of the people known as tradition.

In some places the woman will be forcefully willed to the younger brother of the deceased, especially if the man in question is very rich, in order not to allowed the woman to have total control over the man’s investment and properties, this action is taken to allowed the family of the man to have access to the properties and investment, which are supposed to be the inheritance of the man’s children and wife

If the woman refused to be willed to the younger brother of the deceased, she automatically looses the inheritance to the family of the dead.

You know what that means, the woman and the children are deprived of their right and inheritance.

In some other places the hair of the woman is shaved, while she will be kept in a place of isolation for some days.

The most dehumanizing of all is when the water used in bathing the corpse is forcefully given to the woman to drink, to prove her innocence in the death of the man.

 

Tradition they call it, does it has to be cruel? Does it have to be one sided? Does it have to be the man is always right, why does it favor one gender and not the others?

I wonder what kind of tradition is this. ----- That does not preach harmony, oneness, equality, respect, which are the elements that makes up love.

Why would any one be involved, practice, preach, and encourage a tradition that is devilish and slavery.

 

Seeing this injustice, I ask my self, why are we not following the law of love instituted by God, that we should love others as we love ourselves.

 

What should we call these? They called it tradition, but I said NO, because it is not worth emulating, rather I called it a wicked tradition.

 

 

money

                                                                        Money

Money the most sought after on the planet, money the most powerful tool on the earth, money the most means of exchange for goods and services.

Money a means of lively hood, money, what every one labor’s and thirst for.

Money a solution provider, money the power to buy, money the dream of every human, money the action that speaks louder than voice.

 

Money the reason two friends are at each other’s throat, money the reason two brothers are at war over inheritance, money the reason for kidnapping, money the reason for theft, money the reason for drugs trafficking, money the reason for illegal arms dealing, money the reason behind assassins operations, money the reason for the aborted slave trade, money the reason for killing one’s child for ritual purposes.

Money a dividing factor among business partners.

 

Money is good, money is great, money makes one beautiful, but the love of money is dangerous.

 

  

love or lust

                                                

A million dollar question,

 Many People all over the world today, who claimed and say they are in love are not telling the truth, most of them don’t even know the meaning of love, they just believe when a woman or a man is good on bed, then love has taken place, while others believed, that when you sight a pretty girl or a handsome guy who smiles at you, then love has taken place, that is not true, that is not love.

Many men and women who are in a relationship are not in love but in lust, a product of infatuation.

You can’t just see a man or a woman for the first time, and say I’m in love, because personality is not love, the structures of the human body is not love, handsomeness is not love, beauty is not love, but a product of deception.

Love is a gradual process, love is a learning process, an avenue to understand each other, which takes time to build and come to maturity.

Love is divine in nature, love is spiritual, and not something you can touch with your hand, love is not a mere saying, I love you, love is beyond the words of the mouth, the winking of the eyes, the touching of the body, passionate kissing, sex gimmicks, dinner dates, spending money on gift and precious items.

Love is more than going to the Havana beach during summer holidays, love is more than                    a commitment, love is more than a marriage vows and the exchange of rings.

 

Are you in a relationship with a woman because she is pretty, rich, good looking, good stature, big breast, moderate or big ass? Pointed nose, long hair, blue eyes, a super star, or what have you, or are you in love with a guy because he is tall, handsome, muscular, rich, can satisfy you on bed, got the money to spend around, and what have you, and if all these are the reason you are in a relationship? Then you are lost in lust.

 

The character of who you are dealing with is the most important element in a relationship, character speak of who you are, not the words of the mouth.

Like a parable in my place, that states, character is the real beauty of an individual, not the facial looks. Facial looks is deceptive, and does not give a true assessment of an individual. Characters are the life wire of an individual that determines the level of your maturity and the way you respond to situations at a given time.

 

Many relationship and marriages have suffered pains and anguish due to lust that was mistakenly taken for love, and when you build on the foundation of lust, you should expect the unacceptable.

 

Love is divine and spiritual, but lust is selfish and destructive.

   

 

The other side of a woman.

A woman is a unique being, created with passion and love, having a wonderful and a beautiful qualities, and she having a great emotional attachment to her surroundings, and an undiluted trust which she posses, that makes her a great factor for change and stability in the society.

Her supportive role in whatever she is involved has caused a great change and achievement, because she is involved whole heartedly, and putting her wonderful qualities into use brings about change and transformation for all.

A woman needs a man to manage her well and properly, a man to love her, care for her and give her a sense of belonging without deception, because they trust and hope like a fool.

When a woman loves a man, she believes all he says, even though he is not faithful, truthful and sincere, but when a man misuse his opportunities, and purposely break the heart of a woman, it brings out the other side of a woman, which can only be tamed by love, care, openness and sincerity.

 This other side of a woman is known as the animalistic nature of a woman that has been programmed for destructions when the time arises.

Just like the story of Nancy, a pretty damsel, who fell in love stupidly with Dan for 13 years, with 9 abortions, and a written agreement ,that states, that whatsoever the outcome of the relationship, they are destined for each other, and with the option of death to any one who derails from the agreement.

After 13 years of relationship, and 9 abortions, Dan abandoned and left her, while he married another lady.

Nancy never said any thing, but every other men that came her way paid for the unknown sin, men became detestable in her sight, men became a rotten garbage, that is meant for the dust bin in her sight, and she sought for every available opportunity to deal with men, while she became a thorn in the flesh of men.

Solomon was abandoned on the day of their wedding day, duke was financially sabotaged, John was blackmailed, and tom was set up and sent to prison.

After 3 years, Nancy hired an assassin which killed Dan and his two children, while the wife was spared.

 

A woman can be desperately wicked, when not properly managed, when her heart is bleeding with pains and anguish, with the picture of denial in her heart.

The other side of a woman is deadly and corrosive, beyond mercy and forgiveness.

Note, it is what you invest in a woman that will determine what you will reap.

    

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