love or lust

                                                

A million dollar question,

 Many People all over the world today, who claimed and say they are in love are not telling the truth, most of them don’t even know the meaning of love, they just believe when a woman or a man is good on bed, then love has taken place, while others believed, that when you sight a pretty girl or a handsome guy who smiles at you, then love has taken place, that is not true, that is not love.

Many men and women who are in a relationship are not in love but in lust, a product of infatuation.

You can’t just see a man or a woman for the first time, and say I’m in love, because personality is not love, the structures of the human body is not love, handsomeness is not love, beauty is not love, but a product of deception.

Love is a gradual process, love is a learning process, an avenue to understand each other, which takes time to build and come to maturity.

Love is divine in nature, love is spiritual, and not something you can touch with your hand, love is not a mere saying, I love you, love is beyond the words of the mouth, the winking of the eyes, the touching of the body, passionate kissing, sex gimmicks, dinner dates, spending money on gift and precious items.

Love is more than going to the Havana beach during summer holidays, love is more than                    a commitment, love is more than a marriage vows and the exchange of rings.

 

Are you in a relationship with a woman because she is pretty, rich, good looking, good stature, big breast, moderate or big ass? Pointed nose, long hair, blue eyes, a super star, or what have you, or are you in love with a guy because he is tall, handsome, muscular, rich, can satisfy you on bed, got the money to spend around, and what have you, and if all these are the reason you are in a relationship? Then you are lost in lust.

 

The character of who you are dealing with is the most important element in a relationship, character speak of who you are, not the words of the mouth.

Like a parable in my place, that states, character is the real beauty of an individual, not the facial looks. Facial looks is deceptive, and does not give a true assessment of an individual. Characters are the life wire of an individual that determines the level of your maturity and the way you respond to situations at a given time.

 

Many relationship and marriages have suffered pains and anguish due to lust that was mistakenly taken for love, and when you build on the foundation of lust, you should expect the unacceptable.

 

Love is divine and spiritual, but lust is selfish and destructive.