Sex not love or what do you think?

It is common these days, in this generation to hear this phrase, -- I want to make love to you, let’s make love, can we make love to night, we made love all through the night: when they mean to say we had sex.

There is different between love making and having sex, the phrase love making is only applicable to those who are legally married, and sex among those who are not married, especially the youth and those married men and women who involved in extra marital affairs, are only satisfying their sexual feelings and desire, not love making.

Sex is not love, but it play’s a part in the realm of love when it is done at the right time, (when married)

Love is beyond emotional feelings and active sex, love in it nature is beyond human reason, love is divine in it nature, and it is not a single action but a collections of multiple actions.

Now let me ask you a question, if you believed that sex is love, why then do rape an innocent girl? Is this love?

Why is it that after having sex with the girl you claimed you loved, you go around telling other guys mockingly that you have cross her, and she cried like a baby, is this the attribute of love?

Is it love that makes a man to visit the harlot center? Or is it love that makes man to leave his wife at home and pay his money to a call girl to sleep with?

A 60 years old man is sexually active with a girl of 15 years old, and you call these love, when he, himself will not allowed his own daughter to do the same thing.

What will you say about those who are involved in commercial sex hawkers; I mean those who practice prostitution and other related matters, will you say love is the foundation of their deeds and action? This is one question you must answer to ascertain the truth of the matters.

From your candid  opinion, will say it is love that makes a woman sleeps around with men and get paid, or a man who sleeps around with all kinds of woman and get paid, is this the act of love?

What about a boss of a company who sleeps around with his female staffs, as a guarantee for to keep their job, will you call this love or what?

It is a known truth, that sex is not love, as being spread or made believed by some individual, books, and magazines.

Love in it totality is far- far beyond the segment of love. Like the heavens is far above the earth, so is the disparity between love and sex.

Well, you may have your own opinion on the issue, but the truth is, sex is not love and can never be love.

 

Relationship

Relationship

When you say relationship, what come to the mind of my people is purely the interaction between  a man and a woman, the romantic affairs, the body and soul connection, The normal routine of love and affections, feelings, dating etc

Relationship is more than than that, greater and more important than emotional feelings and attachment of the body and soul.

Relationship is the atom of existence and interactions among humans, and without it man is in isolation and living in darkness.

Relationship plays a vital role in our day to day living. It is the bedrock of existence for any given person, people, group. organizations, states, country etc, for existing and co- existing as a form of interacting, relating in our day to day, doings, dealings.

It is of importance to know and understand the place  and value of relationship in our world.

For this is the only foundation for survival for any given entity .

Without it man and the cooperate world is in darkness,  no lone ranger can survive of it own accord.

We need someone, we need partnership, we need fellowship, we need inspiration to survive and be better in life.

No single tree can make a forest, so it is for every one, no matter the field you belong to , you need a relationship, either directly or indirectly to succeed, to become  better in productivity and make and impact in your world, for this is the real definition of relationship in it wide scope